Things I would tell my younger self
Growing up, I felt that once you became an adult, you had life all figured out. Then there came a point when I realized this is a lifelong journey. I’m sure many of us wish we could go back and teach, encourage & give wisdom to our younger self. Hoping our younger self would listen to our grown-up self.
If nothing else these lessons I’ve learned & still learning will continue to help me move forward to become a more beautiful person. We think of beauty from the mindset of appearance, but true beauty - what others are drawn to - begins with the heart. We don’t have to do this journey perfectly as long as we continue to learn, grow & walk confidently in our journey.
I hope these lessons challenge you to be intentional in the way you live life:
Be Yourself - don’t compare or try to be someone you’re not
Don’t be afraid to try new things or do things you love on your own
Embrace your own beauty
Listen to your intuition
Don’t be afraid to fail - it’s the only way you learn & grow
Take risks - don’t fear the outcome…embrace the adventure
Choose your words wisely - allow your words to encourage those around you
Rejection means redirection - release where you felt rejected & move on
Fear of being abandoned makes you hold on way too tightly - let go
Slow down…live in the moment…be present…listen
Always be kind to others & yourself
Stand up for yourself - don’t let people intimidate you
Always forgive - holding on to hate only hurts you
Live healthy - make exercise, water, food a lifestyle that is fun with balance
Travel - enjoy expereinces
Gratitude is key to enjoying life - daily see blessings you would normally take for granted
Be content with what you have
Don’t worry about the future or difficult situations - do what you can today
Follow you passions
You are never alone- even when you feel alone
Money is not everything
Saying “No” is okay
Don’t be afraid to share your opinion - your opinion is just as important
Treat others as you want to be treated
Dance , be silly, have fun. Don’t worry what others think - maybe you will inspire them
You are stronger than you know
Don’t spend energy trying to change others or think you you can change others
Confidence is captivating, it is powerful & it does not fade - it is more interesting than beauty.
Embrace your imperfections they can become your greatest strengths. People are drawn by humility & how you are growing through your imperfections - it makes them special, attractive & enviable.